Today I learned that..

The cheated always gets mad at the cheatee.

The girlfriend will get mad at and hate the girl/guy with whom her boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on her with. Why? Because she feels like her partner has done no wrong and it's all the cheatee's (person who was cheated with) fault. She or he forced her partner to cheat (so she thinks). This is also valid if the girlfriend is a boyfriend, of course.

The catch: A is a man, B is a woman.

Exhibit 1: If A loved B really much, no matter how much a person flirts with him, he will stay faithful to B.

Exhibit 2: If A doesn't love B that much, he will fall into temptation or worse he will flirt with another person and cheat on B.

The person A cheats on B with, is irrelevant. It could be C, D, E or Z. That person doesn't matter because he or she was in no way responsible for anything. This person most likely does not know B and is not the one cheating on her. A is. Thus A is the one and only one B should get mad at. If A really loved B, he wouldn't have cheated. Since he did, B should question A's love and faithfulness instead of wasting her time blaming C, D, E or Z.

I hope that this will help you in your future disastrous situations, although I do not wish them upon you.